Saturday, October 19, 2019

Moving 1,300 miles with two cats


I sold my house of 10 years. The day before the closing, I put my two cats in their carriers into my old Honda Accord and with every crevice of the car full, I drove to Westerly, Rhode Island where my boyfriend lived.
The adventure began. I had medicated the two babies, Lucky and Rocky and I didn’t hear a peep the entire ride down, which took about an hour.
Two days in Westerly were traumatic enough for Rocky, the youngest at 13 years of age. Guilt washed over me like a typhoon as I felt I had ripped them from their home and everything they knew: their comfort, their territory, their corners, where it smelled familiar and where the daily routines had been ingrained for a whole decade. In contrast, after a few curious strolls around the house, Lucky plopped on the bed and slept, or looked outside the window at birds or the occasional car, and his change of scenery didn’t seem to faze him one bit.
Rocky, on the other hand, found any corner to hide in, behaved aggressively and transformed into this feral creature I didn’t recognize, as he hissed, growled like a panther and scratched the living daylights out of our skin. He had passed on his anxiety and fear onto me a couple months back every time I had to remove him during an open house when car rides and strange houses were involved.
Lucky
The vet had sold me two things: one was kitty Prozac and the other was a pheromone spray to put around the carrier or space 15 minutes prior to their presence. He told me I should start the pill two weeks before leaving, but after two days, I had stopped, because these boys were not themselves. They were shadows of their normal selves and I only resumed drugging their food two days before departure. We left Rhode Island on May 3rd, and these guys were nearly comatose. I almost thought that the spray was more effective without side effects for them, just a lingering unpleasant smell that was still faintly present in my car, three weeks later.
Rocky
Our first stop was right off the highway in a place I had never heard of, Emporia, Virginia, then two days in Myrtle Beach, SC, a place I had always wondered about, but will no longer, as I found it to be too commercial for my taste even though we did find the best tasting Thai sweetened iced tea on the planet somewhere in town. Then two days in Saint Augustine, Florida which were very pleasant, and finally we spent an entire week at a La Quinta in Fort Pierce, FL right off the highway, where the ample room didn’t do much for Rocky’s unhappiness. He kept sleeping in the smallest of carriers, and it didn’t matter if we were in the room or not, it seemed he didn’t leave his cage.
Lucky at La Quinta
While at La Quinta, we would leave them in the room, and we would venture off looking at places to rent. It wasn’t easy to find a place that would be willing to do short term rentals, accepting of cats, but after what seemed  million phone calls, we lucked out and found a 1 bedroom 1 bath condo on a gated community right on Hutchinson Island, a miserly 3-minute walk from the beach, one of the reasons we were relocating.
Rocky at La Quinta
After lugging the contents of our cars into the 2nd floor unit, we couldn’t believe we were steps from the ocean – we could even see a little bit from our screened narrow balcony. I opened the oversized glass sliders, and the cats immediately ventured outside. The sound of the birds, the hot breeze and the scent of the sea provided a cocktail of hope for us and the curious cat kids. Deep down, I knew we were going to be alright.